I had a bride recently ask me for some advice on how to spend time with her family and friends at the reception and still have fun.
Your guests come to the wedding to see you and your new husband so don't leave each other's sides!! Go visit family and friends together, dance together. Your guests will take your lead and feed off your happiness.
Stay together and they will come to you. I always find it weird when the bride is out dancing and the groom is outside. Its your wedding - enjoy together!